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Essentially, this is a form of child abuse and has been around for decades. So, what are some signs that a child is being alienated from a parent?

A drastic change in their attitude toward the non custodial mom or dad, for no apparent reason. Often, this is a good indicator that the custodial parent is inappropriately discussing the absent parent with their child. Children naturally want to please and may take sides with the parent that they reside with. Seeing the other parent as the enemy. Sometimes this is all too obvious, if the child is caught “parroting” something that could only have came from the other parent.

If a child says things to the non custodial parent that they should have no way of knowing (such as information about court proceedings, custody issues, or child support paid, or not paid), alienation is definitely at work. Divorced parents of children should never discuss the legal or financial aspects of their custody with the child. This is extremely detrimental to the child’s emotional well-being.

When a child refuses to go for a court ordered visit with the parent, and the custodial parent allows them to make that choice, that falls under parental alienation. With all of the power a custodial parent has over their children, denying the other parent his or her visitation time is not only out of their jurisdiction, it is illegal.

The most common and often seen sign of parental alienation, is when the custodial parent does everything possible to force the child to pick sides. The alienating parent may try to buy their child’s love and loyalty, by giving expensive gifts, allowing them to do things the other parent wouldn’t, or making plans they know the child will want to do, when it is the non custodial parent’s time.

If a child doesn’t want to have a scheduled visit and gives the excuse that they are “needed” by the custodial parent, or that they don’t want to leave that parent alone, these are red flags that alienation type behavior is occurring in the home. Parents should never make their child feel like they need to be home in order to make that parent happy. Visits with the other parent should be encouraged, and treated as something to look forward to.

There are countless signs of parental alienation. If you are concerned that your child may be going through this, search for help or support groups that specialize in alienation.

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Teaching paganism to your children can be difficult. In the past, there have been few resources available aimed at pagan and Wiccan child-rearing. In the past few years, several great texts and workbooks have appeared that help pagan parents help their children along the path. Here are some favorites:

Pagan Homeschooling: A Guide to Adding Spirituality to Your Child’s Education by Kristen Madden

(Spilled Candy Publications 2002)

This book is a great primer for parents to raise their children in a pagan tradition. It not only discusses how to begin to home school your pagan child but is also filled with activities, spells, rituals, and arts and crafts.

Circle Round: Raising Children in Goddess Traditions by Starhawk, Diane Baker, and Anne Hill

(Bantam 2000)

Circle Round focuses on teaching children earth-centered traditions, including the eight pagan holidays in the wheel of the year and shares recipes that are easy to make with your children. There are traditional stories retold and favorite rituals (like carving the Samhain pumpkin) explored.

Family Wicca: Practical Paganism For Parents and Children by Ashleen O’Gaea

(New Page Books 2006)

Family Wicca was originally published ten years ago and remains the go-to resource for pagan families. Although written through a Wiccan lens, this resource can be successfully interpreted by many other Pagan paths. This book covers all stages of life including death, birth, and hand fasting. Family Wicca also teaches how to answer difficult questions about the Path from children and non-Pagan family members.

Witches’ Datebook by Llewellyn

(Llewellyn 2008)

Llewellyn Press releases a Witches’ Datebook and a Witches’ Calendar every year. Not only is it helpful for a pagan parent to plan with, but is full of pagan recipes, rituals, and astrological information. A great resource to have your children plan their homeschooling lessons in. The dates of all of the Sabbats are included.

Celebrating the Great Mother: A Handbook of Earth-Honoring Activities For Parents and Children by Cait Johnson and Maura D. Shaw

(Destiny Books 1995)

This book is full of activities related to the Wheel of the Year to share with your children, including making smudge sticks, making handmade ornaments for the Yule tree, and making dream pillows. There are many activities related to nature such as gathering wild food on a nature walk. It also includes a handy list of supplies you will need for all of the activities.

Pagan Children’s Workbook by Lady Eliana

(Twin Serpents 2006)

This small book is a great introduction for young children who are learning the pagan path. It includes descriptions of the holidays and rituals as well as coloring pages. Not a lot of meat here but a good workbook for younger children.

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I’ve been watching this film so many times already yet I still holding back my emotions because I can’t control my tears falling from my eyes. I am touched with their love story.

Under circumstance two people decided to leave and live with their own lives. It’s hard and difficult but they have to let it go.

Nick Parker (Dennis Quaid) and Elizabeth James (Natasha Richardson) was a couple but decided to get divorced. They have twins Annie James and Hallie Parker (Lindsay Lohan). Elizabeth James raised Annie alone in London. She (Elizabeth) was a bridal designer and manager her own boutique while Nick Parker raised Hallie alone in California. He has his own vineyard.

Annie and Hallie met unexpectedly at the camping site when the duo was playing fencing. They were surprised when they saw they have resemblance but Annie refused to believe it.

The two will become enemy for awhile when suddenly their teacher was poured out with water from the ceiling. They were put in an isolation area, the duo were continues fighting. They’ll stop fighting when both of them helped to close the window under strong wind. These were the time they started talking when Annie noticed the date of their birthdays and both of them kept the tore wedding picture of their parents. They found out they’re twin sisters.

Before camping was over they plan to switch places, Annie pretend to be Hallie and Hallie pretend to be Annie and spend time together with their both parents that for longest time they never get a chance to be with each other. When camping was over Annie a.k.a Hallie went back home and stay for her mother Elizabeth, and Hallie a.k.a Annie flew to Napa California to be with her father.

When Hallie knew that her father is getting married within two weeks to his publicist Meredith. Hallie made a plan to set up his mother and father conniving with her grandfather. Hallie confessed her mother the whole story how she be at her house. She said she’s not Annie but Hallie. Elizabeth hugged and cried.

During the day that Nick has to meet Meredith’s parents that is the time Elizabeth and Hallie arrived at the hotel. Elizabeth was drunk (mixed emotions and she don’t know what might be her reaction when she meet Nick that after eleven years they meet again)

Finally, Nick and Elizabeth met at the pool with the surprised of Meredith who didn’t know Elizabeth was his ex-wife.

In the eyes of Nick and Elizabeth, it was obvious that they still love each other. 

Because the twins don’t like their parents will never be together again they let their parents have a dinner date in a floating restaurant so the two will talk and reminisced their love story. The twins were so happy watching their parents.

After the bonding and everything Elizabeth and Annie need to go back to London. They flew back but they were surprised when they see Nick and Hallie inside their home then they married again.

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Death is inevitable. It is a part of life. It is part of the plan.

Everyone who is born will someday die.

This is without a doubt the most difficult article I will ever write.

My Mother is dying from the effects of cancer and has congenital heart failure . Trying to find a way to say good-bye to her is too hard to say the least.

Tears will stream down my face until I finish and with each tear and stroke of my key board I say…this article is dedicated to you Mom.

She’s always been there, so alive and full of life and I‘ll admit I’ve taken that for granted.

She lived the kind of life where she never turned down anyone who needed help. She was a single mother that raised five children. She started her own business from the bottom and made it to the top. She was featured in many “Woman Success” magazines for her success in business and for her contribution to the community.

She has certainly lived by example and is leaving a legacy that will never be forgotten.

No matter what your parents have done in their lives the greatest thing they ever did was… give you life.

If you have already been through the death of a parent then you know the pain and I am sorry for your loss.

In trying to deal with this situation I’ve found some comforting thoughts and things to do to ease the pain and make the ordeal as easy as it can be.

ACCEPTANCE

Accepting that death is part of life is the most important thing in order to make it through this.
If you believe that there is life after death then you must know that your parent is going to a better place where there is no more pain or suffering.

If you are unsure or do not believe there is life after death then accept that you were created by your parents and you are a part of your parents. Let your parents continue to live, in you, and your parents will then live in your children and in your children’s children and that way your parents will live on forever.

CELEBRATE

Spend some time alone. Whether you take a drive, hike to the top of a mountain or walk on the beach find a way to spend some quite time to reminisce and re-live your favorite memories alone. You may want to keep a journal and write down your thoughts to re-live at another time and be able to pass those wonderful memories down to your children.

Spending this time alone helps you resolve any issues, things that you can do nothing about now realizing if you had known what you know now you would have done things differently. It’s alright…your loving parent already forgave you a long time ago.

FAMILY

Getting together with the whole family around the bedside of your parent and having a family celebration can be so good and such a wonderful time. Every one taking turns telling family memories and favorite moments. Playing family videos and sharing thoughts will bring everyone back to happier times. You will see the beautiful face of our parent smiling and these activities can be so good and an emotional memory maker that will be of such great worth.

TIME WITH YOUR PARENT

Spend time alone with your parent. This is the time to say and express everything in your heart. Tell them how grateful you are for them and for all they have taught you and shown you in life. Cry, laugh and hold each other for as long as you can.

Each and every day you are blessed to still have your parent with you are special moments that give you more time to eternally bond in beautiful memories together.

Spend time with family and help each other as you all go through this special moment.

As you emotionally accept death and as spend your time alone and gather together as a family to celebrate there will be a peaceful feeling come over you that you will not be able to explain and you will know that it’s time and that it’s OK to let go.

In Conclusion

I encourage you to continue to tell your parents often how much you love and respect them and are grateful for them. Visit them often and don’t let life keep you so busy.

If it’s been awhile or way too long since you have contacted your parents for whatever reasons then I encourage you to pick up the phone and make that call or drive over and visit.

One day you will be so thankful you did. 

My Article also posted on Triond.com by Kaoss1, eHow.com by Kaoss and AssociatedContent.com by Scott Hallock 

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You may be able to manage the time and tasks at the office but the real challenge lies in managing your household such as caring for the baby, preparing meals, or keeping the house clean. If not well-managed, these tasks can bring a lot of stress.

Having a child for the first time may naturally tend to give you jitters particularly with a new setup. But there is a solution to this. You just have to face and deal with your situation because it is only by experience that you would be able to find the best approach to your family life. Here are some of the proven and reliable solutions that you may find helpful in managing your time as a new parent.

Set your priorities.

Knowing how to set priorities properly is among the most important skills that each parent, whether new or not, must exercise. The key here is discerning the difference in schedule as compared to when you were still on your own now that your child becomes your main obligation. Then, you will be able to make the suitable changes.

Determine your top priority: is it your child or your work? You have to be aware that every decision has its own trade-offs, you would therefore have to figure out which of these has the least trade-off.

You may also try making a “to-do” list for your daily activities. That way, you will be able to easily update the priorities you need to focus on.

Delegate other tasks.

When it comes homemaking, it is usually the wives’ duty to handle them. However, wives should not bear the sole burden of all the household chores. Delegate other tasks to your husband, or another family member living with you so you will avoid physical and emotional burn out.

If your husband is not familiar with domestic chores, this is a great time to get him started. Divide the chores at home such as dish washing, laundry, or house cleaning. If not, have him attend to the baby while you carry out some chores. Aside from being able to finish the chores faster, it creates a bond and produces a good teamwork between both of you as parents.

If your children are old enough, you can now ask them to assist you with the chores at home. Start by training them to fix their beds or tidy up their rooms, as well as placing their dirty clothes into the clothes hamper. Aside from the help you get from them, doing these chores also trains them tobecome responsible individuals.

Plan ahead.

For mothersfind it best to plan ahead the tasks that has to be done for the next day or week. One of these things is making a menu ahead of time. Hence, when it’s time to fix lunch or dinner for the household, you already know what to cook.

Creating a weeklymenu increases your efficiency. This saves you the time and energy spent wondering about what to cook for dinner after a tiring day at the office.

When you have to go out with the family, you also need to plan your itinerary ahead of time. This will help you organize the things to be brought with you ahead and figure out if anything is missed. Adequate preparation will see to it that you will have all the things that will be needed.

Shop wisely and systematically

Grocery shopping usually takes an amount of time. To save time, write a list of the important items you need to buy. This will not only help make shopping quicker, but will also ensure that you don’t forget anything. Or else you would consume more time when you have to go back to get the items you’ve missed. If your budget affords, you would find that buying in bulkwould save you even more money in the long run.

Time management generally entails bare common sense. Basically, when you have your priorities at set in good order, you are good to go.

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